| Location | Great Yarmouth |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 09/02/1997 |
| Date of Death | 09/02/1997 |
| Visitors | 3,160 since 16/01/2008 |
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Caitlin Alexandra Barber, Born sleeping in the early hours of 9th February 1997.
Caitlin was a beautiful baby girl, and I cant believe to this day that she was taken so soon. Time
is a great healer but the pain never quite goes away.
A year later my angel sent me a baby boy - Mitchell. He was the image of her at birth and remains my
shining star on earth just as Caitlin is my shining star in Heaven.
She would have been 12 on Monday 9th February 2009 - my grown up little lady and best friend, but
sadly it was not to be.
I miss you caitlin xxx
\\\"A Tiny flower, lent not given, to bud on earth and bloom in heaven\\\"
09/02/2009
A Little Angel
Today it would be wondeful to see you play or Smile
But heaven lent you to this world for Just a little while.
And in that short but precious time
you brought along much love
and all that love is with you now in heaven up above
Your Leaving Caused so many Tears and such a lot of pain.
But God needed one more Angel so he Took Caitlin back again.
Happy Birthday My Little Princess
Daddy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
My Darlin Caitlin
Happy Birthday, 12yrs old today. how those years have passed, The pain eases but never goes away,
Stood at your Grave and Sunday with your Big Sister Jade and Little brother Mitchell. Found my self
in tears with Your Big Sister giving my a hug,Sat here now in tears listening to your Song.my heart
broken.How i wish you was here to give you presents and to give you a big birthday Hug.
We will meet again but until then i treasure the time we had with you to hold you and to tell you
how much you was loved both my me and Mummy.
Happy birthday Darlin, enjoy your day.
love and miss you so much.
Sleep tight my princess . Love from your Daddy
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09/02/2009
Yesterday was such a beautiful day to go visit you... I was hoping your birthday would be bright too
but it was not to be. Hope you liked your flowers... it was a mummy special again but I wanted to
make it myself. There are daffodils from Mitchell and even Jake gave you some more beanie toys to
add to the collection we buried you with. He liked the goat so you better look after it!!!. Everyone
has been so kind and thoughtful and I know I couldnt get through this day if it werent for those
people. Thoughts of you have punctuated my day at every chance and whilst it makes me sad, I know
you are in a better place with the angels. I love you lots and miss you even more. Night night sweet
angel, love Mummy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
06/02/2009
I have been so tearful today... Only you know why my sweet darling xxx
25/12/2008
Another Christmas day passes without you here. I went to your grave this morning and put some
flowers there. I wanted to make you something myself this year, so I hope you liked them... my
kitchen floor is covered in glitter now, but then you're always around so you would know that. You
are loved and missed by so many, there almost wasnt room for my flowers this morning. Mitchell comes
home tomorrow, Im looking forward to seeing him open his presents, I would give anything to see you
open yours too. Love you and happy Christmas up there with the angels xxxxxxxxxxx
02/09/2008
Now I understand why you stopped coming through to me, you didnt need to because you have never left
my side since the day Mitchell was born. Your spirit lives on with him and thats how I know he will
be ok. Thank you for being there today, I'll not tell you off for making Tanya cry but I would love
to know what you said to her! I love you xx
09/02/2009
You have been my uppermost thought today, Mitchell and I went to your grave and put some flowers on
it. Mitchell sat in the car after a bit only becasue he was cold. He wanted to turn the music up in
the car but I said he couldnt becasue he would wake the others but perhaps he could have done just a
bit for you to dance to at your party. I know you will be dancing today, I just wish I could be the
one to pick out your party dress. I know whoever is looking after you will have made you look even
more lovely than you already are and I just know those blonde curls of yours will be bouncing as you
party. Its just me and Mitchell tonight, we are going to the pictures as a birthday treat to you.
Hope you can make it, Ill save a seat for you. All my love forever, Mummy xxxxx
Hi Birthday sweet heart miss you today like every day. had a few tears today when i sat at your
grave. love & miss you daddy xx
Thinking of you Caitlin x
Just popped on to say hi.
miss you so much my darlin especially at this time of year.thinking of you and all the things we could have done .
sleep tight my darlin until we meet again.
love Daddy xxxxx
Hi Princess
Hello Caitlin how are you today, Aunty Carol is sorry she hasnt been on again for a couple of weeks - I still love you an miss you more than anything sweetheart.
Well its almost your 12th Birthday, are you plannin a disco party with all your friends - lots of yummy food to eat and wonderful music to dance too!
I will send some pennies to daddy so he can get you some beautiful flowers for your garden.
Well for now darling I suppose I should get some work done or I will be getting into trouble an we dont want that do we lol.
Have a super day and I promise to come back more often and light your candles.
Love you forever an a day my beautiful little niece, God Bless sweetheart love hugs and big kisses Aunty Carol xxxxx ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
Precious Caitlin... you are so beautiful.
I came across your page as sadly my princess Ella-Mae is also laid to rest in Great Yarmouth... Gorleston cemetry. Love to your loving family.
love Shelly xxx
happy new year princess
Happy New Year darling little angel, wish you was here so we could all celebrate the new year together but I imagine you are having your very own new years party up in heaven with all your angel friends.
God Bless my precious Caitlin, remember Aunty Carol loves and misses you oh so very much. Sweet dreams darling, love hugs and kisess Aunty Carol xxxxx
Happy christmas my darlin Caitlin
Morning Gorgous, sorry i didnt get on here yesterday to say happy christmas, but i was with you at your grave which you knew anyway, Letitia and Mitchell also came with me and we left you some gorgous flowers from us and Grandma & Grandad and also from Aunty Carol , christie Josh and alicia.Jade & Richard also came to see you yesterday with a lovely basket of flowers.We all stood there and had a few tears,Hope you got everything you wanted for xmas in heaven and you only had a little wine with your xmas dinner !!.
We came back to your Grave this morning and took some pictures, we also saw some from Mummy which were also gorgous.I will add the pictures shortly.
Mitchell has to go home soon , Just wished you was also with us, But i know deep in my heart that you are always around us all.
Love you always .Daddy Jade ,Letitia and Mitchell xxxxxx
Happy Christmas
Happy Christmas to our darling little angel Caitlin Alexandra, hope you have a super christmas with lots of presents to open, your the most beautiful little angel in the sky today and always sweetheart.
Its times like this that we miss you even more than usual, Daddy will be bringing you a spray that I bought for your garden with a little card for you too.
Dont forget to take Lucky out for a walk too - did he get a special big bone in his stocking.
Have a lovely day Caitlin, we love and miss you so very very much.
All our love, hugs and kisses Aunty Carol, Christie, Joshua and Alicia.
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Hi Sweetheart
Hi there gorgeous, Daddy is coming up to see us later and bringing Letitia and Mitchell with him, will be lovely to see them, wish you were coming too.
I've got a lovely arrangement for you for christmas with a little card, I'm sure this will be one of many flower arrangements you get sweetheart.
Have you done your list for Santa, bet its really long...
Time for me to go to bed now as its past midnite. I hope you're fast asleep in bed having lots of wonderful dreams.
Miss you with all my heart darling, all my love hugs and kisses forever and ever, Aunty Carol xxxx
My darlin Caitlin
I know that life...it must go on...
Despite my very will...
But now that I have lost my child...
I find...that time stands still.
While other's go about their days...
And time drifts quickly by...
My life can't ever be the same...
No matter how I try...
I close my eyes and see her face...
And all that she might be...
But when I reach out with my hands...
I find... their still empty.
Yes...heaven must be beautiful...
In splendour and in glory...
Yes...lives have been forever touched...
By hearing my child's story...
That doesn't change these aching arms...
And somehow...time stands still...
For there's a space within my heart...
That only she can fill.
And yes I remain thankful...
For time we shared
But please don't say...that time will heal...
Just tell me that you care.
Don't be afraid to say her name...
If you are so inclined...
Don't worry that you'll make me cry...
She,s always on my mind.
And if I cry a thousand tears...
That time cannot relieve...
Please...just try to understand...
That I will always grieve.
I know I'll see my child again...
God promises I will...
But part of me went with her.
For my mummy and daddy
I have not turned my back on you,
so there is no need to cry.
I'm watching you from heaven,
just beyond the morning sky.
I've seen you almost fall apart,
when you could barely stand.
I asked the Lord to comfort you,
and watched him take your hand.
He told me you are in more pain,
then I could ever be.
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard,
then gave your hand to me.
Although you may not feel my touch,
or see me by your side.
I've whispered that I love you,
while I wiped each tear you cried.
So please try not to ache for me,
we'll meet again one day,
beyond the dark and stormy sky,
a Rainbow lights the way.
Have A Good Weekend Everyone
If I Knew
If I knew it would be the last time
That I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time
that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for one more.
If I knew it would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute
to stop and say "I love you,"
instead of assuming you would KNOW I do.
If I knew it would be the last time
I would be there to share your day,
well I'm sure you'll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.
For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything just right.
There will always be another day
to say "I love you,"
And certainly there's another chance to say
our "Anything I can do?"
But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike,
And today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.
So if you're waiting for tomorrow,
why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day,
That you didn't take that extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today,
and whisper in their ear,
Tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear
Take time to say "I'm sorry,"
"Please forgive me," "Thank you," or "It's okay."
And if tomorrow never comes,
you'll have no regrets about today.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
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