| Location | Great Yarmouth |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 09/02/1997 |
| Date of Death | 09/02/1997 |
| Visitors | 3,159 since 16/01/2008 |
| Creator |
Caitlin Alexandra Barber, Born sleeping in the early hours of 9th February 1997.
Caitlin was a beautiful baby girl, and I cant believe to this day that she was taken so soon. Time
is a great healer but the pain never quite goes away.
A year later my angel sent me a baby boy - Mitchell. He was the image of her at birth and remains my
shining star on earth just as Caitlin is my shining star in Heaven.
She would have been 12 on Monday 9th February 2009 - my grown up little lady and best friend, but
sadly it was not to be.
I miss you caitlin xxx
\\\"A Tiny flower, lent not given, to bud on earth and bloom in heaven\\\"
09/02/2009
A Little Angel
Today it would be wondeful to see you play or Smile
But heaven lent you to this world for Just a little while.
And in that short but precious time
you brought along much love
and all that love is with you now in heaven up above
Your Leaving Caused so many Tears and such a lot of pain.
But God needed one more Angel so he Took Caitlin back again.
Happy Birthday My Little Princess
Daddy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
My Darlin Caitlin
Happy Birthday, 12yrs old today. how those years have passed, The pain eases but never goes away,
Stood at your Grave and Sunday with your Big Sister Jade and Little brother Mitchell. Found my self
in tears with Your Big Sister giving my a hug,Sat here now in tears listening to your Song.my heart
broken.How i wish you was here to give you presents and to give you a big birthday Hug.
We will meet again but until then i treasure the time we had with you to hold you and to tell you
how much you was loved both my me and Mummy.
Happy birthday Darlin, enjoy your day.
love and miss you so much.
Sleep tight my princess . Love from your Daddy
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09/02/2009
Yesterday was such a beautiful day to go visit you... I was hoping your birthday would be bright too
but it was not to be. Hope you liked your flowers... it was a mummy special again but I wanted to
make it myself. There are daffodils from Mitchell and even Jake gave you some more beanie toys to
add to the collection we buried you with. He liked the goat so you better look after it!!!. Everyone
has been so kind and thoughtful and I know I couldnt get through this day if it werent for those
people. Thoughts of you have punctuated my day at every chance and whilst it makes me sad, I know
you are in a better place with the angels. I love you lots and miss you even more. Night night sweet
angel, love Mummy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
06/02/2009
I have been so tearful today... Only you know why my sweet darling xxx
25/12/2008
Another Christmas day passes without you here. I went to your grave this morning and put some
flowers there. I wanted to make you something myself this year, so I hope you liked them... my
kitchen floor is covered in glitter now, but then you're always around so you would know that. You
are loved and missed by so many, there almost wasnt room for my flowers this morning. Mitchell comes
home tomorrow, Im looking forward to seeing him open his presents, I would give anything to see you
open yours too. Love you and happy Christmas up there with the angels xxxxxxxxxxx
02/09/2008
Now I understand why you stopped coming through to me, you didnt need to because you have never left
my side since the day Mitchell was born. Your spirit lives on with him and thats how I know he will
be ok. Thank you for being there today, I'll not tell you off for making Tanya cry but I would love
to know what you said to her! I love you xx
09/02/2009
You have been my uppermost thought today, Mitchell and I went to your grave and put some flowers on
it. Mitchell sat in the car after a bit only becasue he was cold. He wanted to turn the music up in
the car but I said he couldnt becasue he would wake the others but perhaps he could have done just a
bit for you to dance to at your party. I know you will be dancing today, I just wish I could be the
one to pick out your party dress. I know whoever is looking after you will have made you look even
more lovely than you already are and I just know those blonde curls of yours will be bouncing as you
party. Its just me and Mitchell tonight, we are going to the pictures as a birthday treat to you.
Hope you can make it, Ill save a seat for you. All my love forever, Mummy xxxxx
Hi Birthday sweet heart miss you today like every day. had a few tears today when i sat at your
grave. love & miss you daddy xx
Hi Darling
Hi Sweetheart
Im Finally 18! It Actually Doesn't Feel Much Different Apart From Im Allowed To Do More Stuff :) And Ino U Was Looking Down On Me On My Birthday.
Hope Ur Havin A Lovely Time Playin With The Angels Up In Heaven
Miss U
Think About You Everyday
Me & Richard Will Get U Some Nice Flowers & Visit Next Week :)
Love U
xx
xxxx
Hi Caitin
Hope Ur Being A Gud Little Angel Up In Heaven
Look After Lucky For Grandma And Grandad x
Another Day Gone.. Not A Day Goes By When I Don't Think Of My Beautiful Little Sister
When I Look Up To The Stars At Night.. And I See The Brightest One...Ino That Its You Looking Down On us All.
Hope You're Having Fun Playing With All The Other Angels Up In Heaven.
Sweet Dreams Sweetheart
Love You Lots
Big Sister Jade
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i no how you are all feeling
just thought i would leave my condolences for you all, i no that a death to a close family member is very hard to cope with, as i have lost my mum!! caitlin is a beautiful little girl!! remember that some day soon you will be able to hold her in your arms and watch her smile at you with her pretty face!! R.I.P caitlin, loveyeww tishxx xkirstyx
For my wonderful brother, take care Ste
A Daddy Hurts Too
People don't always see the tears a daddy cries,
His heart is broken too when his baby dies.
He tries to hold it together and be strong,
Even though his world has gone wrong.
He holds his wife as her tears fall,
Comforts her through it all,
He goes through his day doing what he's supposed to do,
But a piece of his heart has been ripped away too.
So when he's alone he lets out his pain,
And his tears come like falling rain,
His world has crashed in around him,
And a world that was once bright has gone dim.
He feels he has to be strong for others,
But Daddies hurt too, not just the Mothers,
He searches for answers but none are to be found,
He hides behind a mask when he is feeling down.
He smiles through his tears,
He struggles and holds in his fears,
But what you see on the outside is not always real,
Men don't always show how they really feel.
So I'd like to ask a favour of you,
The next time you see my mummy hurting
over the loss of her baby,
please remember.....my Daddy hurts too. xXx
Take care Ste and remember we are here for you if you need to talk. xx
Caitlin send extra hugs to Daddy tonite, i know you will xx
my darlin daugher
im sitting here dont know really what you put.im feeling very low at the moment,whenever i look upon your site it perks me back up. i usually end up sitting by your grave for hours when i feel like this,i know your always beside me .that is my bolt hole ,when me and mummy were
together& argued i would always come over and sit with you.you would always listen and never judge me. well im alone again now and need you more than ever, you are growing into a young women now and what i would do just to be able see you and hold you. i have thoughts in my head of how beautiful you would be now. you helped ease the pain when you sent your little brother to earth, he is 10 now and has a mind of his own, im sure you would be just like him,he is loved just as much as you are. i listen to your song over and over again, it brings so many memorys of your final journey,i would go to the end of the earth and back for just a moment with you but until that day i will have your pictures and your memory for comfort. sleep tight my darlin caitlin. until we meet again
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Little Princess
Little Snowdrop
The world may never notice If a Snowdrop doesn't bloom,
Or even pause to wonder If the petals fall too soon.
But every life that ever forms, Or ever comes to be,
Touches the world in some small way For all eternity.
The little one we long for Was swiftly here and gone.
But the love that was then planted Is a light that still shines on.
And though our arms are empty, Our hearts know what to do.
Every beating of our hearts Says that we love you.
We will love and miss you always Caitlin.
love hugs and biggest ever kisses
Aunty Carol
xxxx
Hello sweetheart
Morning Caitlin hope you are well on this 1st day of April...no playing April Fools on me tho.....
Josh told me the other day he thought we had a ghost in the house as he keeps hearing noises coming from upstairs like a ball bouncing., I know you used to come and play. Its nice to think that you are here again, maybe coming to play with Alicia as she's always upstairs in her room playing with her dollies, we constantly hear her talking and sometimes think she talking to someone other than herself...If you are here playing I'm really happy.
We miss you so much sweetheart and the thought that you are not really very far away brings lots of comfort.
But stop bouncing the ball....love you lots darling, miss you more every day.
Love hugs and kisses
Aunty Carol
PS hope your taking good care of Lucky and taking him for lots of walks as we all miss him very much but know that you'll take care of him.
xx
hello sweetheart
Just a short visit to say we hope you had a lovely Easter and didnt eat to many eggs . We have sent a very special playmate to heaven for you to love, Lucky was a special part off our family for 17 yrs and sadly we had to let him go but we are sure that he will give you lots of love in heaven . Please take care of him and take him for lots of walks .You are both always in our thoughts & hearts
Love you both very much xxxxx
Hello Sweetheart
Hi sweetheart hope you are well. Seen Daddy, Jade, Letitia and Mitchell, and Jades boyfriend yesterday, it was lovely to see them. Mitchell was fighting with Alicia over the control for the Wii game, it was quite funny actually, he's a very determinned little boy!
Yesterday you gained a new play mate too sweetheart as Grandma & Grandad Barber lost their precious and loved dog Lucky, he joined you in heaven so hope your gonna take him for lots of walks, I'm sure he'll give you the same love that he gave Grandma & Grandad. Send lots of love to them Caitlin as they are very very sad.
Hope you had a lovely easter wiv lots of goodies!!
Will be back on again soon darling to talk to you. Love you always and forever darling, love hugs and kisses Aunty Carol
Hello Sweetheart
Hi darling, sat in work, its quiet in the office and your song has just been on the radio. It still makes me go quiet and think about you, about how I held you in my arms and cuddled you if only for a very brief time.
Hope your well and playing with all your friends. Daddy, Jade, Letitia and Mitchell are coming to see us again in a couple of weeks, that will be nice to see them all again. Wish you could have been with them, but I know that you are always with me sweetheart, your always in my heart.
Will write again soon, take care and keep shining over us.
Lots and lots of love hugs and kisses as always, love Aunty Carol xx
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